personality layers

you can not truly judge a person by just casual meeting you really have to be around someone for a period of time to really peal back the layers of a persons personality .and sometimes when you really get to know them .they are much different than you intially thought .sometimes in a good way and sometimes in a bad way .i am very glad i didn't right off a guy i work with when we first met .he acted like a big jerk ,not really being rude .but just how he carried himself .he has now become a trusted and well thought of friend. another guy i work with is rather random ,and yes my brother used this mans treatment of him as a reason to drag up .i have found him rather amusing now ,having ate at his house and laughing at him till my throat hurt. so i try to get to know someone before i truly pass judgment on them .sometimes though once you know them you wish you didn't .lol